Misunderstood

"Miss independent
Miss self-sufficient
Miss keep your distance, mmmm

Miss unafraid
Miss out of my way
Miss don't let a man interfere, no

Miss on her own
Miss almost grown
Miss never let a man help her off her throne."

--"Miss Independent," Kelly Clarkson.

I am seriously, seriously tired of being told I'm "intimidating."

So friggin' tired of it.

It's funny, because my sister thinks that I am TOO NICE to men that I date. She thinks I bend over backward for others, putting my own needs second.

I am so, so confused. I'm literally torn over it. Part of me laughs, and thinks, "PAMF! You must be pretty LOW on yourself to be scared of me." And part of me cries, because... I'm just a girl, looking for a boy.

I actually googled it today, and this actually made me feel better.

Temporarily.